Protecting children from porn


By Brandon Dennis
March 8, 2007

MSNBC recently reported that "[f]orty-two percent of Internet users aged 10 to 17 surveyed said they had seen online pornography in the past year. Of those, 66 percent said they did not want to view the images and had not sought them out ..."

University of Alberta researcher Sonya Thompson found that, in a similar study, "... almost one-quarter of the boys watched pornographic DVDs or videos 'too many times to count' and 35 percent said the same about Internet smut."

A Christian social conservative like me naturally finds these statistics troubling, but to many there is nothing wrong with pornography or masturbation. They consider such things to be simply part of the "sexual exploration" that children go through. Though many who oppose pornography say that it denigrates women and is responsible for much of the sexual violence against them, these arguments are often brushed aside as groundless by those who find pornography harmless. Regardless, pornography is readily available to children and causes them to think about sex, or even partake in it, at a time when they are emotionally and physically immature, thus robbing them of their childhood.

Lynn Segal, professor of psychology and gender studies at the University of London, categorized views on pornography in three different ways: Liberal, Moral Right and Feminist (though the feminist view has many factions). In a 1990 article in the Feminist Review titled "Pornography and Violence: What the 'Experts' Really Say," Segal summarizes each view: the Liberal "... argues that there is no scientific evidence for pornography causing harm in society, and therefore no sound reason for banning it." The Moral Right "... sees pornography as a threat to traditional family values, arguing that sex exists for procreation and should be confined to marriage." And the Feminist view disapproves of pornography "[i]n its heterosexual versions, reducing women to flesh [HTML_REMOVED] or bits of flesh [HTML_REMOVED] [since] it celebrates the idea of men's insatiable appetite and women's ubiquitous sexual availability."

The Liberal view prevails in our culture, and yet I am more inclined to side with the Moral Right, though I would throw the word "enjoyment" in with "procreation." The aforementioned feminist view troubles Segal, herself a feminist, and she "...fear[s] that the evolving exploration by women of their own sexuality is put at risk by forming alliances with [HTML_REMOVED] instead of combating [HTML_REMOVED] the conservative anti-pornography crusade ...."

I think the more important issue is whether or not pornography really does have a negative effect on the viewer, especially children. If it does, the Liberal view is invalidated, and the Feminist view should be altered to accommodate all pornography, not just that which makes women appear submissive.

In a 1988 study reported in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, researchers Donnerstein, Linz and Penrod concluded, in Segal's own words, "... that exposure to violent pornography (for example, depictions of rape) does increase sexual arousal in some men, especially if the victim is shown as 'enjoying' the rape."

A good portion of pornography on the Internet has advanced from relatively tame Playboy centerfolds to more shocking and perverse stuff. For many, bare skin alone is not exciting, and pornography has become increasingly more explicit. Rape is now a common fantasy realized in pornography [HTML_REMOVED] especially Japanese pornography.

"Within Japan itself, the dramatic increase in available pornography and sexually explicit materials is apparent to even a casual observer," wrote Professor Milton Diamond of the University of Hawaii in 1999 in the International Journal of Law and Psychiatry. "The [pornography] produced caters to every taste and fetish and is typically much more aggressive and violent than that seen in the United States." A lot of Japanese pornography is readily available on the Internet, and the sheer amount that is dedicated to the genre of rape is shockingly disturbing. "Most charges of obscenity presently are related to depictions of group or violent rape," said Diamond, "or realistic and graphic film or video depictions of sexual behaviors considered deviant and dangerous ..."

When we hear that children have easy access to pornography online, we would be na[HTML_REMOVED]ve to think that they do not see the shocking and violent kind that permeates cyberspace. In an interview with MSNBC, University of Chicago psychiatrist Sharon Hirsch says, "[Children are] seeing things that they're really not emotionally prepared to see yet, which can cause trauma to them."

Children are not emotionally prepared to see any sort of sexual activity, not just the violent kind, which obviously places me in the camp of the Moral Right. Few will be surprised that I think sex should exist between a husband and wife [HTML_REMOVED] not on the Internet, in magazines, or in the classroom. Of course children need sexual education, but it should be appropriate to their maturity and understanding.

Pornography is not harmless [HTML_REMOVED] it robs children of innocence. It's probably not that great for the rest of us, either.

Reach columnist Brandon Dennis at opinion@thedaily.washington.edu.


Comments

#1 Vandell

commented, on
July 24, 2007 at 11:08 p.m.:

Pardon me? I and my friends, as kids, always looked at pornography. It was part of our innocence, part of the whole 'oh gosh, I hope we don't get caught!' phase of our development that I'm sure plenty of kids have gone through. Yet, I'm healthy and fine, and practice safe sex.

If children / young teens are viewing pornography and wanting to try it out, it honestly shouldn't matter. Sex is a fun and, thanks to a variety of contraceptives, -harmless-. But therein lies the problem.

Kids aren't being taught about contraceptives, and the fun of sexuality quickly turns into fear the moment someone gets pregnant, because they simply did not know how to put on a piece of rubber.

The problem with society today is that so many people -fear- sex, and are attempting to monger and spread that fear to others for -no reason whatsoever-. Except, of course, for claims of causing 'trauma' to a child, which has yet to be backed with scientific evidence.

If you're afraid of intercourse, whatever, keep it to yourself - I'll be over here enjoying myself. I sure hope kids somehow manage to pick up some safe-sex skills, because nothing takes away a child's innocence like pregnancy.

#2 angry mom

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May 16, 2008 at 3:08 p.m.:

As I search this internet site trying to find a way to protect my son from porn, I am appalled to see that you don't think porn devalues women! You are clueless!!! Sex is a gift from God to be enjoyed by two married people, it is not entertainment!!!

#3 Agree with you

commented, on
May 27, 2008 at 6:26 a.m.:

I agree with all of you on this talk that sex isnt entertainment, but even though many people enjoy it its their bussinees but not ours still even though many kids watch porn on the internet it can still be harmfull or not, it all depends on how the kid is. Kids can look for porn and sexually ways on many places like the internet, front cover of a magasine , video games,cartoon, manga(japanis comics, anime(japanis cartoon but it is like adult talk and stuff), pictures, newspaper and even google.So even though you guys will try to cover it all upp it would take a searious long time to do it because its almost everywhere. If you guys want to try to help, tell your kids about it before they will get to go on a internet because it will maybe mess upp their minds in a second. Talk to your kids and spend time with them and dont try to be bad to them if they discover porn on the internet or other places, just talk to them about it and im 50% sure that they will understand because there will come many questions that you will need to awnser them. Peace out!!!!

#4 Concerned Viewer

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May 28, 2008 at 1:06 p.m.:

I found that the article while lacking any real statisitcs, it was still well written. I am however appalled at the responses that this article generated. First off to Vandell, you claim that there is no scientific evidence that early exposure to sex and/or pornography is harmful to children. You are 100% correct, the reason for this is because it isnt a scientific problem, it is a psychological problem.

It is a proven fact that children who were sexually molested as children have a higher chance of becoming sexual predators themselves. There is a reason that most pornographic sites have an age limit, now while this is a poor deterent to determined teenagers it is still law. The age of consent in most states in the US is 17, ever wonder why? Because children are too immature to properly make decisions regarding sex. Also every contraceptive has at least a 1% chance to fail, that means that if 100 teenagers use a condom there is a 1% chance that 1 of them could get pregnant, I hardly call that harmless.

As for you Angry mom, spend more time reading less time skimming an article for things to get angry at. If you had actually read the article instead of blowing it out of proportions you would have realized that Brandon nowhere said that pornography does not devalue women. He clearly stated that you cannot place a limit on what devalues women and what doesnt. Pornography is not entertainment, you are right but it is more dammging to children than a woman's self righteous ego.

If you wanted to know how to protect your children from porn you read the wrong article. This was obviously written to inform you that pornography is something that you need to protect them from, not how to protect them.

And the most appalling sentence I have read from this article so far goes to my "friend" Vandell. " Because nothing takes away a child's innocence like pregnancy" you are wrong. Forgive me for being so naive but I would figure getting raped or possibly getting AIDS would be worse. But go ahead I know that nothing I say will make any difference, people will have sex, protected or otherwise, no one thinks the way I do anymore. Abstinence is the only 100% guarantee that a teenager wont get pregnant or an STD but hey sex is fun damned be the consequences eh? So what if a teenager spreads her legs then gets an abortion 2 months later thats ok because sex was fun right? The problem with this world is that people refuse to acknowledge the consequences of their actions until they are forced to make a crucial decision.


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